Has your recovery improved your life? Has there been any hiccups or struggles?
I stay away from the ones that are using and if i do see them set boundaries just hi and bye bht most of my family supports me and my recovery
Anger management hiccups. I felt attacked recently. The situation revolved around my new pet/kitten. I had other people express concerns about the well-being of my cat. I explained that it shouldn’t concern them.
My life has improved so much over 8 years. I went from on the verge of suicide to what I consider a very fulfilling life. There has been plenty of hiccups along the way. The hardest ones to navigate have been different depression experiences, but I trust the process and keep pushing forward when I have difficult times.
Everything is different. I am different, the life Ive built is different. I have created my own family- I got married, we had kids! I married into a big family and found friends who quickly became aunties to my kids.
I’ve had some sobriety before, but never recovery. It’s giving me a better understanding of my self, my self worth. The hiccups are having to distance my self from family and friends who use.
I totally get that. Perhaps they feel that the pet is now part of their responsibility? Which is (in my opinion) completely misplaced energy.